Understanding the life is simply an art. Some really appreciate it, where as a few curse it. Life is better understood only when we know who we are and what we are. Until a few years back, I ask the Almighty & pray for my wishes to get true. A few really happen (like the results of all my 12 years of schooling) & a few miss out of my way (like all the girls I loved).
We never knew what we gonna be in the future and wen we are kids & someone asks us we say what ever object impresses us on that particular day; say a stethoscope, a revolver, an airplane or a cricket bat. This is accepted till a certain age (may be till your teen age) but there are a few who still search for their future and walk across the road as the path leads them & one such idiot is I, me & myself!!!
I go behind something & that goes behind me in the opposite direction, unwillingly I accept to the fact & realm of life and start moving forward with a false saying “ There is always something better in the store” can someone answer me “ Do you always get the better & best things after you miss out something ?!?!” Not at all… It is really an assumption & confidence that makes you to think that what you got now is better than what you could have had. The truth is, you will never get what you missed but your alter ego makes your mentality to think in such a way & enjoy your life as though you got something much better. After all, Life has to Move on with thoughts like that. It’s just another argument that leads to whether GOD or Supernatural powers exist on earth. Few believe it & a few believe that they don’t believe it.
Coming back to me, just like how the Oxford dictionary added the two words “Jai Ho” & “Slumdog” in their big book, can they add “Jai” as a synonym of haplessness? I am always un-lucky; I don’t know Y me alone?!?! Once after watching the movie “Lucky man” (Tamil movie, as no tax exemption 4 Tamil titles @ that time), I still remember that night where I was dreaming about having one such book (which shows the future) in my school bag to check whats gonna happen in future. Although, it was my junior school level & you know what i dreamed ?!?!? It is who my wife is & what is her name. Of course, the term Girlfriend did not exist in my mind at that age.
When I think about it, it sounds really funny but let me tell you having one such book is the numero uno curse you can get in life. Life is best enjoyed only when we do not know what will happen tomorrow. The essence & thrill behind that has no words to explain. You plan something & you build something!! You take off somewhere & you land somewhere!!! At one point, you never know what you are & why you are in this place but still you have a goal to set & think a healthy future is ahead and start traveling in it. I sleep everyday with so many questions running across my mind but the answer to it is “what ever happens, let’s face it positively”. Well, according to me, for instance, the happiness present in knowing much ahead of where and how you meet a girl, whom you like d most on the next day is much lesser than you meeting her all of a sudden, the sudden shock you get, the immediate smile that widens ur face, your tender heart that skips a beat, your useless mind that suddenly makes you to forget what you were talking about. Will we get all these lovable feelings in life if we wait for her much ahead knowing anything & everything on earth? Certainly, For certain things we should wait until the right time comes. Accept this with a big NOD!!!
As mentioned in some line earlier, whether God exists or not!!! I think it is really a stupid question to ask when you put yourself in his shoes. I tried to be like God for one day when I was waiting for a girl in satyam cinemas. The CEO of world plays a real tough job up above the sky!!! The one minute thought, if I was God and I come to know whats happening in & around me & also by knowing the future, who knows just like how I am waiting for a girl, my better half might be waiting for a guy & we may cross each other several times not knowing who we are gonna be in future. This one minute thought made me to accept to the fact that “He thy Lord, thy Exist or Not, Shall be the Superior (Chapter Jai 3:16).
I repeat, Understanding life is an art & I am still “UNDER-STANDING” my Life. Just think of a world without you and the world with you & what changes you did to this world in the wonderful life provided to you & you will feel happy if you had done things to keep people happy, if not you will work towards it. Currently,I’m working on it, whether i am lucky or not, the two hands & one small brain is enough to make people happy, live happily & hope i make my life fruitful not only to me but also to the people surrounding me & make them smile all the time.
This blog is a dedication to the legendary Frank Capra, the director of the Classic movie “It’s a wonderful life”, an inspiration to write things in my blog & in my life too.
